HOW MUCH CAN A WOMAN TAKE IN HER MARRIAGE?THIS IS MY STORY…

HOW MUCH CAN A WOMAN TAKE IN HER MARRIAGE?THIS IS MY STORY…

One thing I have come to realize in this part of the world is that after marriage, whatever activity that is either being done by the husband or wife is considered as a responsibility that must be done. Responsibility considered as RIGHT. This is a common illustration: As a woman, after marriage, of course it is expected to take care of your husband. One of the ways of doing this is cooking. Even though i am of the opinion that a woman is better in that aspect, does it really mean it’s the right of the husband that his wife Read more »

One Great Fear of Every Single Lady,fear of the unknown -Part 1

One Great Fear of Every Single Lady,fear of the unknown -Part 1

Every single lady has something to fear for when it comes to marriage. Could it mean women generally bother about unnecessary things? Maybe, maybe not. What i have come to realize from my observations and conversations is that the fears of single ladies are somewhat uncountable. Maybe i am exaggerating. But if you are  an African, you should get the point.And if you don’t, Here is a true life story. This experience will serve as an illustration of what i mean by the greatest fear of a single lady. MY AUNT’S NARRATION When you are being told things, that are Read more »

“BEEJ”- The Word I nor Kids should have Learned

“BEEJ”- The Word I nor Kids should have Learned

So over the weekend, I visited an aunt of mine and found her two kids having tutorials for upcoming exams. These kids are less than 8 and were having spelling lessons. Their tutor goes, “spell beef.” The kids spell it. Tutor goes again, “spell bleed.” The kids spell it and I’m feeling a bit of pride watching my kid cousins breeze through this spelling test. Then the tutor says, “Spell beej.” I swear to God, I thought she said, “Spell beige”. But in my mind I’m like, that’s not how you pronounce beige. Maybe the tutor was pronouncing it wrong. Read more »

He tormented my family till the very end

He tormented my family till the very end

This is the beginning of my true life story for all those who missed how and when it all started. Mmuo had beaten mother to death I was bitter. I couldn’t help myself. I cried endlessly hitting myself saying: I should have been there to fight for mum I was still holding on to her corpse begging her to answer me.I told God to help me. I told him i would not let Mmuo enter the house ever again but he should make mum wake. I begged mum and God but nothing happened. My father came home and on seeing Read more »